Hello GNG Team, My wife only gives birth to albino children, and to be honest, I’m exhausted. I feel as though I’m childless. I’m 42 years old, and after six years of marriage, we have two children—both of whom are albinos. We have a 3-year-old boy and a 2-year-old girl. When my wife first got pregnant five months after our wedding, I was thrilled. But when she gave birth to our albino son, I was so disappointed that I refused to pay the hospital bills.
It took a lot of pleading on her part and consoling from family and friends before I could forgive her and decide to accept the situation.
Then, she got pregnant again, and nothing changed. She gave birth to another albino child, adding to the one we already had at home. At this point, I’m not even proud of myself as a man. I feel like I’m childless, as if she’s no different from a barren woman to me. I’m embarrassed to attend community meetings, convinced that people are laughing at me behind my back.
I’m certain the problem isn’t with me. My parents had three children, none of whom are albinos. My siblings all have children, and none of them are albinos either. I’m clearly not the issue. As a result, I’ve completely lost interest in being with my wife and have found myself having an affair with our housemaid. It wasn’t something I intended, but every man in my situation might have done the same.
The good news is that she’s now pregnant with my child, and I’m genuinely excited to finally have what I consider a “normal” child.
I’ve paid her bride price, and she’s going to be my wife. At least now, I have a woman who can give me “normal” children. My mother is fully supportive of this and is happy about the development we’ve all been waiting for this moment. I don’t regret my actions, but I don’t know how to break this news to my wife. She’s a good woman, and I do love her. I don’t want to hurt her, especially since she has high blood pressure.
Can you please advise me on how to handle this situation? How do I go about telling her?
